Before I begin with the article I wish to draw your attention towards the disclaimer:
The present article isn’t inspired from the Uber’s Case, any Open Letter or the sensitive video on ‘Indian Women Deserve to Get Raped’ and not even the recent acid attack on a woman doctor by another fellow doctor who was her best friend, huh! The article is an expression of my thought that has been haunting me for a long time now, in a local bus, crowded street, Jogger’s Park, railway coaches, while some emotional and agonizing read on women assault, leisure walk and during encounters with real incidents. I had wanted to find a space and some time to pour out my heart on how it feels to be an Indian Woman and finally I could make some time for it. Therefore, the article mustn’t be considered as a ‘Season’s Post’.
Men are always men…but there are also many other men who really make this world a better place for women. Our aim is not hardcore feminism… we need both men and women to make this world a better place to live for all.
loved this blog a lot….. good job.
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Jency I agree to your point but my post was not against all MEN.. it was directed towards those who make it so uncomfortable for women that they begin to curl up themselves in a shell.
thank you for reading 🙂
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An incredible post, one of the most deeply moving I have ever read. I am so sorry for the pain you’ve suffered over the years. Thank you for sharing your story. Your courage will make a difference. It is a small but vital step towards change. Never doubt your bravery or your contribution. Have courage, be yourself, and be justly proud of who you are and what you stand for. Again, extremely well done, both women and men will be better off for reading your extraordinary statement.
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Thanks a lot Mark. I really look forward to a change… A change for a better tomorrow 🙂
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Supriya…
Hatts off……
The way you found to reveal the untold feelings for lakh of women in our country…..is superb….We expect our society to change to change this scenario..in the coming future….
Thank you for your effort….
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Thanks a ton for taking out time to read the article. Yes, I agree a change is needed… Badly!!
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Nice work…hats off..
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Thank you for reading… Stay tuned.. 🙂
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Truly amazing suppi di… Loved it thoroughly… U have hit the right note… Keep rocking…
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Thank you dear.. Keep reading. Love you loads :*
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amazing!!! truely a brain stromer!!! n srsly!! a big no-no 2 IGNORE theory!
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Exactly Namratha..!! A strict No-No to ignore theory.
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Supriya! Wonderful piece to read and ponder over.Keep up the good work!
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Thank you Srabani ma’am. It feels good when people hear you and understand your feelings. Stay tuned for more. 🙂
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Awsum supriya….experiences and thoughts of every woman…..its like hearing your own voice…..i too have a daughter and i have started saving her from now…..since our society doesn’t give time for her prepare herself to retaliate…..
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Thanks a ton Poonam ma’am. Your angel is too young to retaliate and therefore you need to take care of her but please make sure that you teach her to deal with the wrong doers and never feel shy or ashamed of anything that belongs to her, that makes her what she is. I don’t want my next generation to face what my previous generation had and the present generation is facing.
The society will never give enough time and opportunity for anything… We have to snatch our right if not granted. It’s never too late!! Let’s not ignore the wrong and speak out for our right!!
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Beautifully written supriya, u deserve a big round of applause. I wish ushare more of your experience when u get married.
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Shilpi ma’am thank you for being a constant support and so encouraging. It feels good when your efforts are given its due. Stay tuned.
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Wow… Nice work…
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Thank you Partha Paul for taking out time to read it. It feel good. Stay tuned.
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Supu its a good attempt. Frankly, there is nothing new. When we write something, it should be very simple and invoke our deep core. You should have dealt more with your feeling when your cousin misbehaved with you. It is good that you are expressing.it takes courage to share this.
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Thanks Farah for taking out time to read it. It’s really means a lot. I accept it’s nothing new but then again I couldn’t have afforded to throw light upon only one incident when there was so much to say and make the piece lengthier. Another fact being it was intentional, not to delve with that episode for too long because the other episodes and incidents have left a similar impact on the life of this woman.
Well, I believe it’s just not me and the anecdotes dealt with are not just not mine.. That’s of a woman. If my article has failed to irk the strings of heart and move people then I guess I have a lot to learn and a long way to go. Once again, thank you for devoting your precious time.
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Each word ignites a spark within a woman…. it is each girl.s story…. truly wonderful….
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Thank you Bhagwanti ma’am… It means a lot. Thank you for taking out time to read it..
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Nicely penned down…..
Its all about the summary of a woman’s life….
Hatts off ….
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Thanks Pooja for your kind words.. Yes I feel it that way for I am a woman.
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Too good!!!…”If I give birth to a girl, I will not train her in IGNORE THERAPY but will give her lessons in RETALIATE REMEDY”
This is what i will do…Hope this is for a “POSITIVE CHANGE”…..Hats off to u…!!
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Thanks Shyama for the read.. Yes, it’s time that we retaliate because ignorance is not always a bliss.
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Reblogged this on My Personal Blog.
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thank you Kumar Ashutosh… getting a reblog feels good
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